This website has a single purpose in
mind - to give out incredible dating tips for WOMEN
and relationship advice from the greatest dating
advisors on the internet. This site is
different than most because I focus on ONLY dating
tips for women - this includes relationship help,
meeting men, keeping men, whatever you need.
Coming VERY soon to this site, as well, is going to
be a way for you to get your SPECIFIC DATING ADVICE
QUESTIONS answered by our on site relationship
expert. No more "we'll see if we can answer
your questions in a newsletter" - you ask, you WILL
get an answer. How's that sound?
Now on to the dating tips for
women....
One of the first dating coaches I ever heard was
Christian Carter of Catch Him and Keep Him.
Christian Carter is a great (and totally HOT) dating
coach - but he is one of many coming to this site.
Check back often, as I will constantly be adding new
content to the site and more great dating tips,
dating advice and relationship advice exclusively
for women. Christian can also help you out with
ONLINE DATING as well, giving you tons of tips on
writing profiles, how to get a guy’s attention and
more.
Never heard of
Christian Carter? Step inside and learn. Know
all about Christian and his Catch Him and Keep Him
philosophy? Excellent. Come on in and learn a few
more can’t miss tips exclusively for women. Just
looking for the eBook? Simply click on the
picture.
************************************************************************** As my Mom always told me though, don’t put all your
eggs in one basket! I have gathered a lot of advice
from other sources as well and one of my favorites
is...
One of the hottest women on the internet right now
in the dating and relationship advice “world” is
Coach Rori Raye (formerly Rori Gwynne”. Author of
How to Have the Relationship You Want and Keyonote
speaker in Christian Carter’s interview series and
other programs, Rori’s
unique brand of advice for women is truly
worthwhile. If you are looking for more RELATIONSHIP
ADVICE then Rori is your woman - she can really help
you rebuild your existing relationship into the
relationship you want it to be.
In Rori’s eBook, she shares with the reader tools
and techniques work no matter where you are in your
love life. Several of the things she teaches are how
to quickly learn to speak so a man can hear, and
listen so he'll speak (that alone will transform
your love life); how the "Energy Exchange" between
men and women works differently than we're taught by
everyone else out there, and see for yourself, from
the first time you try her Tools, how fast they
work. You will learn essential keys to a successful
relationship - and so much more.
It's almost a shock when men begin to respond to you
in a completely different way. Even more so when
your friends start to notice how much happier you
are, how you have joy in every day things - the kind
they have always wished they could have. So check
out
Rori’s eBook now, or my section on
Rori Raye's advice
and start today to build the relationship you have
always dreamed you could have.
Online dating can be a trial for ANY woman,
especially if you are not familiar with how to
navigate, post a profile or even overcome your own
fears and anxiety. Having the RIGHT ATTITUDE will
allow you to not only be successful with dating
(online and offline), but will also allow you to
open up and find the MAN of YOUR dreams.
You accomplish this by LEARNING to communicate that
you are a SEXY, ALLURING WOMAN without inviting the
wrong guys to send you creepy messages.
Don’t waste your time—time is precious! You can
avoid wasting all that time attracting the wrong
kind of man. Instead, learn the KEYS to attracting
Mr Right, from the first contact to the first date
to maintaining attraction and your relationship. YOU
can learn how to
Click With Him!
Here is a great article by Emily
called ...
Pick Me! Pick Me!
--Emily McKay (X & Y Communications)
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IN THIS EDITION: As women what do we do with a man
who is interested in us and another woman? And how
do we get a guy to pick us over her? Find out in
this newsletter.
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Dear Emily,
Thank you so much for your newsletters! I have a
question... I am dating this guy who is dating me
and another girl, how do I know if he is really
interested in me? How can I make him more interested
in me than the other girl? He is such an amazing
catch but is it silly for me to wait around for him
to decide what he wants? HELP!
Thanks,
Dana
Dear Dana,
I am happy that you wrote me. Your question on how
to get your guy to pick you is one that many women
are facing.
When you first meet a guy, he may be seeing other
women at the time. After the two of you get to know
each other, at some point he will have to decide to
continue dating multiple women or become exclusive
with you.
That's a given.
If you are looking for a life partner rather than
just a series of casual flings, then you are very
wise not to be willing to "wait around" should he
prove not to have similar goals as you.
It's a great idea to spend the first few dates
evaluating a man's long-term potential (as he no
doubt is evaluating yours also).
But once you feel you have found a man with whom
you'd like to pursue something more long-term, you
need to communicate your expectations of an
exclusive relationship to him effectively.
It's completely fair to tell him that you won't wait
around forever. I stop short at recommending that
you deliver an ultimatum, though. Why?
Although many women would be tempted to say to a man
they've been seeing for a few weeks or months, "Make
me your girlfriend or else!", I believe that such
ultimatums only serve to place you in a position of
weakness. It really makes a woman look "desperate".
Your idea of giving him every reason--and
opportunity--to choose you on his own is a much
better idea than using "leverage tactics".
As far as *how* to make him choose you, that will
depend on how well matched you are and how well you
demonstrate to him that you are a rare, high quality
woman that he would be foolish to let slip by
him.
Most men have no problems committing to a women whom
they believe is a great catch. As long as you have
worked on making yourself that woman, then you
should never settle for a man who does not
appreciate that rare opportunity to be with someone
like you.
Handle yourself with feminine grace, and show class
at all times.
Show yourself to be a trustworthy woman who will not
be forever "testing" him by flirting with other
guys--especially right there in front of him. This
is a major cause of boyfriends being unsure of
committing to a woman...and rightly so.
Strangely though, men will almost never cite this
fact as the reason why for fear of either appearing
weak and/or starting an "unnecessary" argument.
Instead, they'll tend to simply keep the status
quo...especially if the sex is good and the pressure
is otherwise low.
Finally, realize that a man wants a woman who
approves of him and is his greatest cheerleader when
it comes to rooting for him to fulfill his life's
purpose.
Women who can put aside the temptation to try to
change a man (and Heaven forbid nag him to death
about it) are exactly the ones who tend to attract a
great man who is worthy of our respect.
And the beauty of that is you don't *have* to change
a guy like that. You can be proud to have him
in your life.
I wish you the best in your life.
Have fun,
Emily
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I think just about every one of us has walked in
Dana's shoes before.
Being the kind of woman who a truly terrific man
chooses over all others changes your life. Instead
of dating a string of "commitment phobic" men, you
suddenly have men wanting to marry you rather soon
after you meet them...maybe even after the first or
second date!
Although I hope you aren't the type who would make a
hasty decision and run off to Vegas with a guy you
just met, these are indeed what we call "high
quality problems" here at X & Y Communications.
And that's precisely what my new program
Click With Him is devoted to.
One of the biggest reasons I've worked so hard to
make Click With Him great is because my passion is
to watch YOU become a woman who has complete control
over her dating life...eventually meeting an amazing
man who lights up your life and sharing a blissful
future with him.
So far it includes over TWELVE HOURS of audio AND
video on how to maximize high-quality womanhood so
you can meet--and attract--the kind of man you
want...without ever "settling".
Best of all, I show you exactly how you can even
meet a great man ONLINE, like I did. I've even
developed a 30-day plan for doing just that.
But whether you are online or not, I've stuck to my
vision for making
Click With Him the ultimate program for women
who will settle for nothing less than deserving the
greatest man they've ever met.
Is that you?
If so, then I'm sure you'll be thrilled by Click
With Him.
Have Fun,
Emily
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Emily McKay is a dating coach and Internet radio
talk show host with X & Y Communications. Her latest
program,
Click With Him, empowers women to find and
attract the right man, online OR offline. It can be
found at
www.clickwithhim.com. For free podcasts and
other cool dating resources visit
www.deservewhatyouwant.com.
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